(Worth a repost from 2008 qraeyen.tumblr )

“ I want him to have the option to hurt me, betray me, lie to me, leave me, but won’t. Not because I asked him not to but because seeing me in pain would hurt him more.Love is not made up of rules. It’s not an obligation. It’s not about being told what to do to make the other happy.”

Love should never be enforced, never asked for and definitely never begged for. Begging for love is the worst. Love is supposed to be built, caressed and taken cared of. The best definition of love is of Coehlo’s .. I don’t know the exact lines but it talks about love and freedom. That you could never lose anyone because you don’t own them. That you are supposed to love freely.

There’ll always be a someone who’ll make you want to commit yourselves to them. That someone who’ll make you fall in love not just a quarter not even half .. A love *no that someone won’t teach you this* that will teach you not to be selfish, to not have priorities *in the aspect of love and emotions ONLY, real life priorities do not count*  to not oblige and demand, to not expect anything back, to love unconditionally without making yourself do stupid things. Love gives us the chance to learn how to forgive and forget, let go and move on, cry and laugh all those negativities away.

We should never stop falling in love, with ourselves, with our significant other. Everyday, every hour, every minute, every second, every single moment with or without them. Being in love is supposed to be the greatest feeling, it should inspire you, it should bring out the best in you if it doesn’t it may be love, love not in its best.

Commitment can be such a burden IF you don’t want it.  Don’t force yourself to commit to something you can’t get married to *NOT literally, married here means – to have yourself INVOLVED in a higher level with your RELATIONSHIP not your partner*

Involving yourself through consulting and confiding with each other not by making decisions or enforcing certain limitations.

“ I don’t want to drown in his world, I don’t want to force him into mine.Two journeys sharing the same road, destination trusted in faith.” – Nikki (who is now a mommy)